Interaction
and Teamwork
Best
Practice :: Advanced
Synchronize your gesture and movement with your co-anchor. Research
shows the perception of chemistry is driven by the observation
of physical synchrony — how one person's movement flows
out of the movements of another person.
It
is very much like watching people dance. When the movements of
one partner flow into the movements of the other, the effect is
mesmerizing. When their movements are at odds, the effect is disastrous.
This does not mean that you should copy or mimic your partners
in interaction. Instead, observe how they are moving and work
consciously to build on that.
To
begin to get a feel for it, try this:
1.
Practice a shared lead or toss with another anchor, allowing
him to speak first.
2.
When he finishes and shifts focus to you, deliberately begin
with body language and gesture that is similar to, but not an
exact copy of, the body language and gesture he used to end
his speaking part.
3.
Continue until he interrupts you, building on the starting point
you gained by watching him.
4.
When he interrupts, he works to match you, and the process is
repeated.
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